It's Official. We've Lost Our Minds

We are currently in Lancaster, PA. Well, near there, anyway. A few weeks ago, I had the brilliant idea to come up here for a weekend. We love this area, Aaron already had today off work, and we could see all the Christmas decorations. So we left early this morning. The kids slept off and on until we got to DC. Just past DC, Jacinda started screaming. At first, we thought she was just tired of being strapped in her seat. Then it occurred to Aaron that the last time she was in a car for that long was in China when she left the foster family and came to meet us. So we're not sure if today's trip was triggering some bad memories or not. We really hope that she didn't think we were taking her somewhere and planning on leaving her.

We stopped just north of Baltimore to eat lunch at Baja Fresh. Yes, we plan our vacations around where we want to eat. More on that later ..........

Our plan was to go to Hershey, PA tomorrow morning and go to Chocolate World. Well, we had a crazy idea to go tonight and go not only to Chocolate World, but Hershey Park as well. It is their Christmas thing, and we thought it would be fun to see Santa and his real reindeer and to ride some rides. Sounds fun, right? Well ..........

It was 45 degrees outside ..... and the wind chill ....... around 39 degrees. Yes, that's right, we walked around a theme park for several hours in 15 mph winds. Fortunately, the kids were dressed approriately, although they could barely walk! They had on fleece pants, heavy coats, hats, and mittens. Aaron and I on the other hand were not so fortunate. Aaron had on jeans, a long sleeved t-shirt, and a fleece pullover. I had on jeans, a light sweater, and a heavy coat. I had left my gloves and scarf at home. The wind was whipping right through my jeans. Needless to say, we were pretty cold. I seriously do not know what possessed us!!!!!! We did have fun, though. Luke thought the rides were just the best thing ever.

After all that, we went to one of our favorite restaurants ever ... Isaac's Restaurant and Deli. It's basically a sandwich place. They have some sandwiches on bread made out of pretzel dough. YUM!!!!! And, it's a great place to take kids. When we sat down, they gave us the standard crayons and kids menu. They also gave each of the kids a small package of pretzel goldfish to much on. Brilliant!!!!!! We ordered and they brought the kids' side dish before the meal! Again, brilliant!!!!!!!! And the best thing is that we had a free sandwich coupon!!!!

Tomorrow's plan is to go to a few outlets in Lancaster, and then we're surprising Luke with his first real train ride!!!!! I think we might be more excited than he will be!!!!!

Oh, and we left our camera cable at home, so you'll have to wait for pictures until we make it home! Our camera is pretty much dead anyway, though. We're hoping it will hold out for the weekend.

Captain Destructo

On a lighter note .......

We have started calling Jacinda "Captin Destructo". This girl is crazy. She tears up everything. She makes a mess out of everything. It's like nothing I've ever seen. Luke was a piece of cake compared to this girl!!!!! We are having to babyproof even more things. More baby gates. More doorknob covers. More everything.

She also never stops! She never sits down and just relaxes. We just follow her around and laugh. I have never seen anything like it.

When she falls down, most of the time, she just laughs and gets up and does it again! In fact, we are getting pictures taken tomorrow, and she has 2 bruises on her forehead!!!!!

As far as how we're coping .... we're hanging in there. The crazy thing is that both kids are better behaved when we're at a store than when we're at home! Seriously. In the mornings, I usually try to take them to run an errand or two, and then we go to the park if it's nice outside. When we're shopping, they are perfect angels. Isn't that the craziest thing?

Yesterday ......

Yesterday, I was beginning to seriously doubt that we could handle this parenting 2 toddlers business. It was a pretty rough day.

I should warn you here that this post is not going to be all sunshine and roses. Just trying to be real ...... If you don't want to read about the hard part of adoption, stop reading now.

All day long, both kids were screaming. Luke was crying because he fell down (very dramatic these days). Luke was pushing Jacinda down for no reason. Jacinda walked into the corner of the table, so she was screaming because of the huge bump on her forehead. Jacinda was pulling on the cat's tail. One thing after the other. All.Day.Long.

Also, many other things happened ........ I found out I need a root canal. Our buddy, Steve, tore down what was left of our old fence. One of our neighbors freaked out because their dog got out and Steve brought it back. We had NO clue they had a dog, otherwise we would have told them. Lots of drama.

By the end of the day, I was DONE. I was really starting to wonder what we had gotten ourselves into. After Luke had pushed Jacinda down for about the 100th time, he went to his room. Aaron went up to talk to him and finally got the truth out of Luke. Luke was wondering if we could take Jacinda back. It was the first time he's said something like that to us. So they talked about it and we all went to bed.

This morning, Luke fell down or something and was crying. Before Jacinda came home, he totally would have just gotten up and been fine. Since she's been home, he cries at the drop of a hat. So I took him into my lap and asked why he was so sad all the time. He said, "Because Jacinda is here and I'm not the only kid any more." (Aaron had said something like that to him last night.)

So Luke and I talked about a few things. First, I told him that Daddy and I love him just as much as we ever did. Second, I told him that we're a family, and families work things out. I told him that this is hard for all of us. But that we would all work together and figure things out and be happy. He seemed to be satisfied with that discussion.

We, of course, knew that there would be some transition time for all of us. I don't think we realized it would be this hard. Luke is used to sharing, but he's not used to sharing HIS stuff, and HIS mommy and daddy. I'm not sure we realized how hard it would be for a 3 year old to have his entire world turned upside down.

Today has been better. Hopefully yesterday was just a bad day. I'm SO thankful that Aaron is working only part time this month. It's been so helpful to have him home.

Adjusting .........

We've been home just over 2 weeks now. We're pretty much over the jet lag, finally. Adjusting to life as a family of 4 has been pretty difficult. The kids love each other, when they're not fighting over anything and everything. Right now, they're both laying next to me on the bed and they're kicking each other for no reason. And now they're both screaming.

Luke has been handling all of this as well as a 3 year old can be expected to. His whole world was just turned completely upside down, and that was after mommy and daddy were gone for almost 3 weeks. So he's had a hard time. Sharing toys is pretty hard for him. I mean, he's had to share before at church and school, but not so much on his home turf.

Jacinda screams. A lot. We think it's largely because she can't communicate with us. She doesn't say anything at all due to her cleft palate. Part of it is probably grief from her world being turned upside down, too.

They're actually better behaved when we're not at home! Of course, that might be due to the large amounts of snacks they get while we're out and about!!!!! We've also been spending lots of time at our neighborhood park. The weather has been nice lately, so we've been trying to get out and enjoy it.

But we're hanging in there. Aaron is working part-time this month, so that's a huge help. He goes into the office in the mornings and then comes home at lunch. He's able to help me get the kiddos fed and down for their naps.

Pictures from our trip are HERE.

That's it for now! I must attempt to put kiddos to bed!